Elternsprechtag: Questions Parents Should Prepare

A Parent’s Guide to Parent-Teacher Meetings (Elternsprechtag) in Germany

What is Elternsprechtag?
It is an official meeting between parents and educators or teachers, usually held twice a year, aimed at:

• discussing the child’s academic, social, and behavioral development,

• exchanging views about strengths and weaknesses,

• identifying necessary support steps if needed.

How to prepare for the meeting

• Confirm the date and time and attend punctually.

• Prepare a list of questions or points you want to discuss.

• Bring a notebook to write down what is said.

• If one parent does not speak German well, it is better to bring a translator if possible.

Important questions to prepare:

1. Questions about learning and development:

• How is my child’s learning progress compared to peers?

• What are my child’s strengths, and what areas need improvement?

• Does my child participate actively in lessons or activities?

2. Questions about social and behavioral aspects:

• How does my child interact with other children?

• Have you noticed specific situations such as shyness or aggression?

• Does my child have close friends, and how do they express emotions?

3. Language-related questions:

• What is my child’s German language level?

• Do they pronounce words clearly? Do they use sentences correctly?

• Is it recommended to include them in a language support program (Sprachförderung)?

4. Questions about cooperation between home and kindergarten/school:

• Is there anything we can do at home to support the child’s development?

• What kinds of activities do you recommend outside care hours?

• Are there homework or exercises you recommend doing at home?

5. Personal or individual questions:

• How do they handle eating or sleeping (especially in kindergarten)?

• Did they face difficulties separating from parents or adjusting?

• Are there any special events or behaviors we should know about?

Additional tips:

• Stay calm and respectful, and be ready to listen fairly.

• Don’t hesitate to ask for clarifications or practical examples.

• After the meeting, discuss key points with the child in a positive way.

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